{"id":1002,"date":"2018-07-07T23:28:53","date_gmt":"2018-07-07T21:28:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/?p=1002"},"modified":"2018-09-13T13:13:15","modified_gmt":"2018-09-13T11:13:15","slug":"detom-iba-to-najlepsie-zaverecna-cast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/detom-iba-to-najlepsie-zaverecna-cast\/","title":{"rendered":"De\u0165om iba to najlep\u0161ie? (z\u00e1vere\u010dn\u00e1 \u010das\u0165)"},"content":{"rendered":"

V\u00a0poslednej \u010dasti seri\u00e1lu<\/strong><\/a> o\u00a0po\u010d\u00edta\u010doch vo svete det\u00ed, a\u00a0o\u00a0de\u0165och vo svete po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov, n\u00e1m autorka, klinick\u00e1 psychologi\u010dka Elena Spev\u00e1kov\u00e1 otv\u00e1ra poh\u013ead do bud\u00facnosti. M\u00e1me pred sebou alarmuj\u00face pr\u00edklady. Sta\u010d\u00ed na\u0161e presved\u010denie, \u017ee my i\u00a0na\u0161e deti v\u0161etko zvl\u00e1dame, aby to bolo skuto\u010dne tak? Je n\u00e1\u0161 mal\u00fd svet bezpe\u010dnej\u0161\u00ed ako ten ve\u013ek\u00fd? Od chv\u00edle, kedy sme sa pripojili do internetovej siete, je t\u00fdm \u201ena\u0161im svetom\u201c cel\u00e1 zemegu\u013ea. A\u00a0na\u0161e deti maj\u00fa rovnak\u00fd mozog i\u00a0psychiku ako deti na jej opa\u010dnej strane. Hrozia im teda tie ist\u00e9 nebezpe\u010denstv\u00e1 …<\/strong><\/p>\n

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K\u00a0OBRAZU SVOJMU<\/h3>\n

V\u00a0Japonsku sa st\u00e1vaj\u00fa ve\u013ek\u00fdm probl\u00e9mom mlad\u00ed \u013eudia, preva\u017ene chlapci, ktor\u00ed od detstva presedia pri po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov\u00fdch hr\u00e1ch a\u00a0in\u00fdch programoch 10-12, aj viac hod\u00edn denne. Sami Japonci u\u017e maj\u00fa pre nich pomenovanie hikikomori, \u010do znamen\u00e1 vtiahnut\u00ed dovn\u00fatra, obmedzovan\u00ed. Nechodia do \u0161koly, ani do pr\u00e1ce, v\u00f4bec nevych\u00e1dzaj\u00fa von z\u00a0bytu svojich rodi\u010dov, prakticky sa nebavia ani so svojimi rodi\u010dmi, z\u00a0izby sa vyjd\u00fa najes\u0165 a\u017e ke\u010f rodi\u010dia u\u017e spia. V\u00a0dospelosti s\u00fa \u00faplne odtrhnut\u00ed od reality. Lie\u010dba takejto z\u00e1vislosti je zatia\u013e ot\u00e1znikom. S\u00fa rodi\u010dia, ktor\u00ed tvrdia, \u017ee ich die\u0165a cel\u00fd de\u0148 pri po\u010d\u00edta\u010di nesed\u00ed a\u00a0chod\u00ed riadne do \u0161koly. No, ak po pr\u00edchode zo \u0161koly zvy\u0161ok d\u0148a presed\u00ed pri po\u010d\u00edta\u010di, je tu riziko z\u00e1vislosti rovnak\u00e9. Z\u00e1vislos\u0165 sa m\u00f4\u017ee zmocni\u0165 ka\u017ed\u00e9ho \u010dloveka. K\u00a0rozvoju z\u00e1vislosti na po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov\u00fdch technol\u00f3gi\u00e1ch prispieva opakovanie hier a\u00a0pozvo\u013en\u00e9 predl\u017eovanie \u010dasu, ktor\u00fd die\u0165a pri po\u010d\u00edta\u010di str\u00e1vi. Ve\u013emi zradn\u00e1 je nuda – ke\u010f die\u0165a nem\u00e1 aktivity, ktor\u00e9 by boli pre neho povzbudiv\u00e9 a\u00a0ktor\u00e9 vykon\u00e1va rado, napr. r\u00f4zne kr\u00fa\u017eky, \u0161port, turistika at\u010f., vyp\u013a\u0148a si \u010das t\u00fdm, \u010do m\u00e1 \u201eporuke\u201c. Dnes je to mobil alebo po\u010d\u00edta\u010d. K\u00a0hr\u00e1m a\u00a0soci\u00e1lnym sie\u0165am sa \u010dasto uchy\u013euj\u00fa \u013eudia sklaman\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa c\u00edtia osamel\u00ed, h\u013eadaj\u00fa si \u201eb\u00fat\u013eav\u00fa v\u0155bu\u201c a\u00a0t\u00fdm sa st\u00e1vaj\u00fa z\u00e1visl\u00fdmi na t\u00fdchto programoch. U\u00a0japonsk\u00fdch hikikomori sa ako \u010dast\u00fd mot\u00edv ukazuje rozpor medzi nadmern\u00fdmi a\u0161pir\u00e1ciami rodi\u010dov a\u00a0osobn\u00fdm pocitom t\u00fdchto mlad\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, \u017ee zlyh\u00e1vaj\u00fa. Ide o\u00a0ich vn\u00fatorn\u00fd komplex, \u017ee nie s\u00fa schopn\u00ed dosiahnu\u0165 tak\u00fa \u00farove\u0148, \u010di u\u017e vzdelania alebo spolo\u010densk\u00e9ho uplatnenia, ak\u00fa rodi\u010dia od nich o\u010dak\u00e1vaj\u00fa. Je to t\u00fa\u017eba unikn\u00fa\u0165 pred realitou, ktor\u00e1 je pre nich nepr\u00edjemn\u00e1.<\/p>\n

M\u00c1ME TO POD KONTROLOU?<\/h3>\n

V\u00fdvoj vedy opakovane dokazuje, \u017ee ak \u013eudia ignoruj\u00fa prevent\u00edvne upozornenia, ak s\u00fa \u201ehluch\u00ed\u201c k\u00a0v\u00fdstrah\u00e1m a\u00a0upozorneniam, d\u00f4sledky b\u00fdvaj\u00fa a\u017e tragick\u00e9. V\u00a0domnienke, \u017ee \u201en\u00e1m sa to nem\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165 …, to sa st\u00e1va len t\u00fdm druh\u00fdm\u201c str\u00e1came ostra\u017eitos\u0165. Tento r\u00fdchly vp\u00e1d informa\u010dn\u00fdch technol\u00f3gi\u00ed, ktor\u00fdch negat\u00edva e\u0161te dobre nepozn\u00e1me, mo\u017eno prirovna\u0165 k\u00a0\u017eiveln\u00fdm pohrom\u00e1m. Vid\u00edme neraz v\u00a0telev\u00edzii ak\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky m\u00e1va napr\u00edklad pr\u00edchod hurik\u00e1nu, ak \u013eudia ignoruj\u00fa v\u00fdstrahy meteorol\u00f3gov. Rodi\u010dia, ktor\u00ed pr\u00edli\u0161 \u013eahkomyse\u013ene nech\u00e1vaj\u00fa de\u0165om v\u00a0ruk\u00e1ch mobily, po\u010d\u00edta\u010de, s\u00fa ako t\u00ed \u013eahkomyse\u013en\u00ed, ktor\u00ed nechc\u00fa po\u010du\u0165, \u017ee sa k\u00a0ich obydliu bl\u00ed\u017ei \u017eiveln\u00e1 pohroma, a\u00a0tak sa na t\u00fato mo\u017enos\u0165 ani nepripravia.<\/p>\n

HOL\u00c1 PRAVDA<\/h3>\n

Po\u010d\u00edta\u010dovej technike sa \u013eudstvo nevyhne. Naopak, \u010d\u00edm \u010falej t\u00fdm viac aj pracovn\u00fdch aktiv\u00edt sa bude riadi\u0165 po\u010d\u00edta\u010dmi a\u00a0teda je potrebn\u00e9, aby sa ich deti nau\u010dili dobre ovl\u00e1da\u0165. Pozor v\u0161ak, aby po\u010d\u00edta\u010d neovl\u00e1dal \u010dloveka. M\u00fadry rodi\u010d nepozer\u00e1 len na to, \u010d\u00edm jeho die\u0165a m\u00f4\u017ee raz, i\u00a0v\u010faka zru\u010dnosti v\u00a0nar\u00e1ban\u00ed s\u00a0po\u010d\u00edta\u010dom by\u0165. Rovnako intenz\u00edvne sa treba zauj\u00edma\u0165 aj o\u00a0to, \u010do v\u0161etko negat\u00edvne sa vo virtu\u00e1lnom priestore m\u00f4\u017ee na jeho die\u0165a \u201enalepi\u0165\u201c. V\u00a0re\u00e1lnom svete s\u00fa ponuky pre verejnos\u0165 dobr\u00e9, menej dobr\u00e9, vyslovene \u0161kodliv\u00e9, na ktor\u00e9 \u013eudia ve\u013emi dopl\u00e1caj\u00fa … Tak aj vo virtu\u00e1lnom priestore s\u00fa ponuky ve\u013emi r\u00f4zne. Anonymita virtu\u00e1lnych \u201epodnikate\u013eov\u201c umo\u017e\u0148uje, aby sa spr\u00e1vali vo\u010di naivn\u00fdm u\u017e\u00edvate\u013eom po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov e\u0161te nebezpe\u010dnej\u0161ie a\u00a0ohrozovali ich e\u0161te viac ako v\u00a0realite. Die\u0165a ur\u010dite tieto n\u00e1strahy neodhal\u00ed – a\u00a0padne do pasce. Ak deti \u010dasto hraj\u00fa hry, ktor\u00e9 maj\u00fa agres\u00edvny obsah, tieto otupuj\u00fa ich reakcie vo\u010di n\u00e1siliu, ktor\u00e9 sa pre nich st\u00e1va samozrejmos\u0165ou. S\u00fa zn\u00e1me pr\u00edpady, \u017ee masov\u00e9ho vraha na\u0161tartovali pr\u00e1ve bojov\u00e9 hry, kde hr\u00e1\u010d priamo strie\u013ea do svojich virtu\u00e1lnych nepriate\u013eov (to je napr\u00edklad pr\u00edpad masov\u00e9ho vraha Andersa Breivika). In\u00fdm ve\u013ek\u00fdm rizikom, ktor\u00e9mu podliehaj\u00fa preva\u017ene chlapci, a\u00a0to u\u017e v\u00a0obdob\u00ed z\u00e1kladnej \u0161koly, s\u00fa pornofilmy. Chlapci, ktor\u00ed sa priskoro upn\u00fa na porno, z\u00edskavaj\u00fa ve\u013emi skreslen\u00fa predstavu o\u00a0intimite, a\u00a0to a\u017e tak\u00fa, \u017ee v\u00a0dospelosti nedok\u00e1\u017eu int\u00edmne \u017ei\u0165 so skuto\u010dnou partnerkou. Nerozumej\u00fa \u017eene ako \u017eivej bytosti, o\u010dak\u00e1vaj\u00fa od nej spr\u00e1vanie ak\u00e9 vidia u\u00a0pornohere\u010diek – len v\u00fdkon, bez citu, bez z\u00e1ujmu o\u00a0porozumenie a\u00a0s\u00fahru vo vz\u0165ahu.<\/p>\n

S\u00c1M MEDZI \u013dU\u010eMI<\/h3>\n

Pov\u00e1\u017eliv\u00e9 je, \u017ee mlad\u00ed \u013eudia \u010dasto id\u00fa po ulici a\u00a0nepozeraj\u00fa pritom pred seba, ale do mobilu. Okrem straty kontaktu s\u00a0okolit\u00fdm svetom riskuj\u00fa \u00faraz, ako p\u00e1d, \u010di n\u00e1raz do nie\u010doho a\u00a0podobne. Pr\u00ed\u010dinou \u00farazov, aj v\u00e1\u017enych ne\u0161\u0165ast\u00ed s\u00fa tie\u017e sl\u00fachadl\u00e1 v\u00a0u\u0161iach pri ch\u00f4dzi po ulici, najm\u00e4 pri prech\u00e1dzan\u00ed cez cestu. Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 uvedomi\u0165 si, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e1 nov\u00e1 vec, nov\u00fd v\u00fdrobok, nech je z\u00a0akejko\u013evek oblasti, je dobre presk\u00faman\u00fd z\u00a0h\u013eadiska jeho \u00fa\u010delnosti, to je, aby dobre plnil to, \u010do v\u00fdrobca do neho chcel vlo\u017ei\u0165. Negat\u00edva dan\u00e9ho v\u00fdrobku v\u0161ak u\u017e tak presk\u00faman\u00e9 nie s\u00fa, tie sa uk\u00e1\u017eu a\u017e v\u00a0priebehu ich pou\u017e\u00edvania. Je teda na u\u017e\u00edvate\u013eoch, \u010di myslia na tieto mo\u017en\u00e9, av\u0161ak nepresk\u00faman\u00e9 nedostatky a\u00a0teda nar\u00e1baj\u00fa s\u00a0nov\u00fdm produktom (v\u00a0na\u0161om pr\u00edpade s\u00a0informa\u010dn\u00fdmi technol\u00f3giami) opatrne, \u010di sleduj\u00fa jeho v\u0161estrann\u00fd vplyv alebo \u010di ignoruj\u00fa aj podan\u00e9 negat\u00edvne inform\u00e1cie. Spravidla opatrnej\u0161\u00ed a\u00a0predv\u00eddavej\u0161\u00ed s\u00fa \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed u\u017e maj\u00fa \u017eivotn\u00e9 sk\u00fasenosti, k\u00fdm deti a\u00a0mladistv\u00ed s\u00fa nekritick\u00ed nad\u0161enci za v\u0161etko nov\u00e9. Je preto na rodi\u010doch, aby sa zauj\u00edmali o\u00a0to, \u010do ich deti v\u00a0informa\u010dn\u00fdch technol\u00f3gi\u00e1ch nach\u00e1dzaj\u00fa a\u00a0chr\u00e1nili ich \u010dasto aj pred nimi sam\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n

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Elena Spev\u00e1kov\u00e1,<\/em>
\nklinick\u00fd psychol\u00f3g<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

V\u00a0poslednej \u010dasti seri\u00e1lu o\u00a0po\u010d\u00edta\u010doch vo svete det\u00ed, a\u00a0o\u00a0de\u0165och vo svete po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov, n\u00e1m autorka, klinick\u00e1 psychologi\u010dka Elena Spev\u00e1kov\u00e1 otv\u00e1ra poh\u013ead do bud\u00facnosti. M\u00e1me pred sebou alarmuj\u00face pr\u00edklady. Sta\u010d\u00ed na\u0161e presved\u010denie, \u017ee my i\u00a0na\u0161e deti v\u0161etko zvl\u00e1dame, […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":1064,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1002","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-zaujalo-nas"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1002","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1002"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1002\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1066,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1002\/revisions\/1066"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1002"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1002"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1002"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}