{"id":1486,"date":"2018-11-08T06:14:50","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T05:14:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/?p=1486"},"modified":"2018-11-08T07:01:29","modified_gmt":"2018-11-08T06:01:29","slug":"tak-si-myslim-ze-nevieme-pomahat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/tak-si-myslim-ze-nevieme-pomahat\/","title":{"rendered":"Tak si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee nevieme pom\u00e1ha\u0165"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Od mali\u010dka n\u00e1s u\u010dia, \u017ee druh\u00fdm treba pom\u00e1ha\u0165. Slab\u0161\u00edm, star\u0161\u00edm, chor\u00fdm, utl\u00e1\u010dan\u00fdm, de\u0165om, &#8230; Kr\u00e1sna my\u0161lienka, ale jej uskuto\u010dnenie v \u017eivote n\u00e1m \u010dasto kr\u00edva. Asi sa zhodneme v tom, \u017ee vz\u00e1jomnej pomoci je medzi nami st\u00e1le m\u00e1lo. Na druhej strane, ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s niekde a\u00a0niekomu pom\u00e1ha. Ako je teda mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee je pomoci nedostatok? Nat\u00edska sa prvopl\u00e1nov\u00e1 odpove\u010f \u2013 tak\u00e1 je doba. Treba si v\u0161ak znovu pripomen\u00fa\u0165, \u017ee dobu tvor\u00edme my sami. Kde teda rob\u00edme chybu? D\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 \u010das\u0165 defin\u00edcie pomoci znie: Pomoc pozost\u00e1va z r\u00e1d, in\u0161trukci\u00ed, potrebn\u00fdch inform\u00e1ci\u00ed alebo \u00fakonov s\u00a0priamym kladn\u00fdm \u00fa\u010dinkom. Na prv\u00fd poh\u013ead jasn\u00e9. Na\u0161a pomoc v\u0161ak m\u00f4\u017ee ma\u0165 podoby r\u00f4zne.<\/p>\n<p>Pomocou toti\u017e m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 aj odmietnutie pomoci. Alkoholikovi asi nepod\u00e1me poh\u00e1r v\u00edna, ke\u010f n\u00e1s o to po\u017eiada. Av\u0161ak ko\u013eko \u201epoh\u00e1rov v\u00edna\u201c sme podali v in\u00fdch pr\u00edpadoch? Najsk\u00f4r sa mus\u00edme zamyslie\u0165, \u010di to, \u010do obe\u0165 od n\u00e1s \u017eiada je pomoc alebo \u201epomoc\u201c. Potom treba nabra\u0165 odvahu a silu na jej odmietnutie. Inou podobou pomoci m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 z\u00e1chrana obeti. \u010casto ich zachra\u0148ujeme za ka\u017ed\u00fa cenu. Ako asi dopadne z\u00e1chrana alkoholika, ak ho don\u00fatime \u00eds\u0165 na protialkoholick\u00e9 lie\u010denie proti jeho v\u00f4li? Ako \u010dasto v\u00f4bec \u201ezachra\u0148ujeme\u201c \u013eud\u00ed proti ich v\u00f4li? Sna\u017e\u00edme sa pom\u00e1ha\u0165, aby im bolo lep\u0161ie, no zab\u00fadame na nich samotn\u00fdch.<\/p>\n<p>V onom priamom kladnom \u00fa\u010dinku, o\u00a0ktorom sa hovor\u00ed v defin\u00edcii, je zakopan\u00fd pes. V z\u00e1pale pomoci sa zab\u00fadame pozrie\u0165 na \u00fa\u010dinky pomoci z dlhodob\u00e9ho h\u013eadiska. Najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161iu \u00falohu v tomto pr\u00edbehu hr\u00e1 na\u0161a zodpovednos\u0165. Zodpovednos\u0165 za na\u0161e \u010diny vo\u010di ostatn\u00fdm. Ve\u013emi \u010dasto svojou \u201epomocou\u201c berieme in\u00fdm pr\u00e1vo na omyly a hlavne pr\u00e1vo na mo\u017enos\u0165 vlastn\u00e9ho od\u010dinenia si svojich ch\u00fdb a t\u00fdm i zodpovednos\u0165 za ich vlastn\u00e9 \u010diny. Ke\u010f prijmeme zodpovednos\u0165 svoju, potom automaticky prenech\u00e1me ostatn\u00fdm t\u00fa ich. Ned\u00e1vno som sa rozpr\u00e1vala s pracovn\u00edkom charitat\u00edvneho zdru\u017eenia na pomoc chudobn\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom v Afrike. U\u010dia \u013eud\u00ed, \u017eij\u00facich v chatr\u010diach mimo mestskej civiliz\u00e1cie, p\u00edsa\u0165 a po\u010d\u00edta\u0165. No, u\u010dia ich aj pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 platobn\u00e9 karty a po\u017ei\u010diava\u0165 si na \u00faver. Je to pomoc? Mo\u017eno, \u017ee ke\u010f prestaneme \u201epom\u00e1ha\u0165\u201c a \u201ezachra\u0148ova\u0165\u201c zostane n\u00e1m sila na skuto\u010dn\u00fa pomoc, nie t\u00fa pod\u013ea na\u0161ich predst\u00e1v. Samozrejme, pom\u00e1hajme, no nechajme priestor obetiam na ich vlastn\u00fa zodpovednos\u0165, aby si ju uvedomili a\u00a0hlavne, aby pod\u013ea nej mohli slobodne kona\u0165. To ist\u00e9 plat\u00ed pre zodpovednos\u0165 n\u00e1s sam\u00fdch.<\/p>\n<p><em>S\u00a0\u00factou<\/em><br \/>\n<em>pom\u00e1haj\u00faca \u017delm\u00edra Mach\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Od mali\u010dka n\u00e1s u\u010dia, \u017ee druh\u00fdm treba pom\u00e1ha\u0165. Slab\u0161\u00edm, star\u0161\u00edm, chor\u00fdm, utl\u00e1\u010dan\u00fdm, de\u0165om, &#8230; Kr\u00e1sna my\u0161lienka, ale jej uskuto\u010dnenie v \u017eivote n\u00e1m \u010dasto kr\u00edva. 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