Rodi\u010dia mi rozveselene rozpr\u00e1vali pr\u00edhodu: Mlad\u00fd mu\u017e odv\u00e1\u017eneho zov\u0148aj\u0161ku zazvonil pri dver\u00e1ch s\u00a0diev\u010denskou adresou v\u00a0ruke. K\u00fdm mu mama vysvet\u013eovala, \u017ee \u010d\u00edslo s\u00edce s\u00fahlas\u00ed, ale v\u00a0na\u0161om vchode ani v\u00a0susedstve nik s\u00a0tak\u00fdm menom neb\u00fdva, otec mu medzit\u00fdm vy\u010d\u00edtal z\u00a0r\u00f4znych n\u00e1pisov na veste i\u00a0ten, ktor\u00fd sa mu najviac zap\u00e1\u010dil: \u0164a\u017eko sa sta\u0165 anjelom. A\u00a0k\u00fdm mi so smiechom hovorili o\u00a0tej \u010dudnej n\u00e1v\u0161teve, uvedomila som si, \u017ee ten n\u00e1pis je vlastne pravdiv\u00fd. Ba \u010do viac: nielen\u017ee je \u0165a\u017eko sta\u0165 sa anjelom, ale je \u0165a\u017eko aj by\u0165 spr\u00e1vnym kres\u0165anom. Ak sa zamysl\u00edme nad svoj\u00edm konan\u00edm, mus\u00edme pr\u00eds\u0165 k\u00a0z\u00e1veru, \u017ee takmer v\u0161etci \u017eijeme z\u00a0kompromisov medzi spolo\u010denskou konvenciou a\u00a0kres\u0165ansk\u00fdmi z\u00e1sadami.<\/p>\n
Prvou, rozhoduj\u00facou z\u00e1sadou v\u00a0spolo\u010denskom styku pre kres\u0165ana m\u00e1 by\u0165: \u201eMiluj bl\u00ed\u017eneho svojho ako seba sam\u00e9ho!\u201c Aspo\u0148 vzdialene sa dok\u00e1\u017eeme k\u00a0tomuto ide\u00e1lu pribl\u00ed\u017ei\u0165 iba vo viano\u010dnej atmosf\u00e9te. Viano\u010dn\u00fd \u010das vy\u017earuje magick\u00e9 \u010daro silnej\u0161ie ako be\u017en\u00fd spolo\u010densk\u00fd zvyk, preto sa musela konvencia prisp\u00f4sobi\u0165. Pred Vianocami a\u00a0na Vianoce aj zvykov\u00e9 pr\u00e1vo dovo\u013euje by\u0165 oh\u013eaduplnej\u0161\u00edmi, l\u00e1skav\u00fdmi a\u00a0pozorn\u00fdmi k\u00a0probl\u00e9mom in\u00fdch \u2013 zn\u00e1mych aj nezn\u00e1mych. Teda, vtedy mo\u017eno milova\u0165 svojich bl\u00ed\u017enych bez obavy, \u017ee by n\u00e1s okolie pova\u017eovalo za \u010dud\u00e1ka vymykaj\u00faceho sa z\u00a0be\u017en\u00fdch noriem.<\/p>\n
Ako kr\u00e1tko n\u00e1m v\u0161ak t\u00e1to tolerancia dobra vydr\u017e\u00ed! Ve\u010f u\u017e na Nov\u00fd rok op\u00e4\u0165 milujeme iba seba sam\u00fdch a\u00a0na\u0161i bl\u00ed\u017eni sa n\u00e1m plet\u00fa s\u00a0na\u0161imi nepriate\u013emi, \u017ee u\u017e sa sami nevyzn\u00e1me v\u00a0tom, koho m\u00e1me milova\u0165 a\u00a0komu odp\u00fa\u0161\u0165a\u0165. Preto sa dr\u017e\u00edme osved\u010denej trad\u00edcie, \u017ee na\u0161i bl\u00ed\u017eni s\u00fa n\u00e1m len t\u00ed, z\u00a0ktor\u00fdch m\u00e1me \u00fa\u017eitok. E\u0161te chv\u00ed\u013eu v\u00a0spomienkach pretrv\u00e1va povznesen\u00fd pocit z\u00a0nezi\u0161tnej viano\u010dnej u\u0161\u013eachtilosti, ale \u010doraz n\u00e1stoj\u010divej\u0161ie n\u00e1m do mysle prer\u00e1\u017ea vedomie v\u0161edn\u00e9ho d\u0148a, \u017ee pr\u00e1ve preto s\u00fa Vianoce sviato\u010dn\u00e9 \u2013 a\u00a0ak by sme boli u\u0161\u013eachtil\u00ed a\u00a0l\u00e1skypln\u00ed po cel\u00fd rok, Vianoce by stratili svoje v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00e9 sviato\u010dn\u00e9 \u010daro.<\/p>\n
\u00damyselne si pletieme pr\u00ed\u010diny a\u00a0n\u00e1sledky, aby sme sa sami pred sebou ospravedlnili za to, \u017ee dlh\u0161ie ako t\u00fd\u017ede\u0148 \u2013 dva v\u00a0roku nedok\u00e1\u017eeme svojich bl\u00ed\u017enych milova\u0165. A\u00a0na\u0161i bl\u00ed\u017eni ani nie s\u00fa konvenciou pripraven\u00ed l\u00e1skypln\u00fa pozornos\u0165 mimo tohto obdobia prij\u00edma\u0165. Sk\u00fasili ste u\u017e vo v\u0161edn\u00fd de\u0148 usmia\u0165 sa na chodn\u00edku aj na nie dobre zn\u00e1mych \u013eud\u00ed, alebo aspo\u0148 za\u017eela\u0165 im \u00faprimne pozdravom dobr\u00fd de\u0148? Pozr\u00fa sa zm\u00e4tene, nech\u00e1pavo, z\u00e1jdu a\u00a0upokoja sa my\u0161lienkou, \u017ee sme si ich s\u00a0niek\u00fdm pom\u00fdlili.<\/p>\n
Pon\u00faknite sa star\u0161iemu \u010dloveku pom\u00f4c\u0165 s\u00a0n\u00e1kupom, zazriete in\u0161tinkt\u00edvne pevnej\u0161ie zovretie rukov\u00e4te, \u010di ho nechcete okradn\u00fa\u0165. Nie, e\u0161te st\u00e1le nevieme by\u0165 kres\u0165anmi, celou svojou bytos\u0165ou, po cel\u00fd rok. Kres\u0165anstvo n\u00e1m je iba maskou, ktor\u00e1 s\u00a0na\u0161ou skuto\u010dnou tv\u00e1rou m\u00e1 ve\u013emi m\u00e1lo spolo\u010dn\u00e9. Kres\u0165anstvo sa n\u00e1s v\u00a0nesviato\u010dnom \u017eivote akosi vn\u00fatorne nedot\u00fdka. Museli by sme st\u00e1le nezi\u0161tne milova\u0165. \u00c1no, e\u0161te st\u00e1le je \u0165a\u017eko by\u0165 kres\u0165anom \u2013 tak\u017ee od anjela m\u00e1me poriadne \u010faleko.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Rodi\u010dia mi rozveselene rozpr\u00e1vali pr\u00edhodu: Mlad\u00fd mu\u017e odv\u00e1\u017eneho zov\u0148aj\u0161ku zazvonil pri dver\u00e1ch s\u00a0diev\u010denskou adresou v\u00a0ruke. K\u00fdm mu mama vysvet\u013eovala, \u017ee \u010d\u00edslo s\u00edce s\u00fahlas\u00ed, ale v\u00a0na\u0161om vchode ani v\u00a0susedstve nik s\u00a0tak\u00fdm menom neb\u00fdva, otec mu medzit\u00fdm […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":916,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1710","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-obzor-seniorov"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1710","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1710"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1710\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1711,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1710\/revisions\/1711"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/916"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1710"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1710"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1710"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}