{"id":2738,"date":"2019-10-09T01:13:53","date_gmt":"2019-10-08T23:13:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/?p=2738"},"modified":"2019-10-09T01:57:12","modified_gmt":"2019-10-08T23:57:12","slug":"tak-si-myslim-ze-ak-mame-uctu-k-sebe-mame-uctu-aj-k-inym-a-opacne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/tak-si-myslim-ze-ak-mame-uctu-k-sebe-mame-uctu-aj-k-inym-a-opacne\/","title":{"rendered":"Tak si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ak m\u00e1me \u00factu k sebe, m\u00e1me \u00factu aj k in\u00fdm. A opa\u010dne"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u017divot je pln\u00fd pravidiel, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m v\u0161tepovali star\u0161\u00ed. Jedno z nich bolo, \u017ee k star\u0161\u00edm m\u00e1me ma\u0165 \u00factu. Jedna gener\u00e1cia za druhou to k\u00e1\u017ee tej nasleduj\u00facej, no, nem\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee ju vieme aplikova\u0165 do \u017eivota lep\u0161ie ako gener\u00e1cie pred nami. Naopak \u2013 odborn\u00edci tvrdia, a mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina z n\u00e1s to potvrd\u00ed, \u017ee priepas\u0165 medzi gener\u00e1ciami sa zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161uje a prehlbuje. Ako je to mo\u017en\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Popravde, nie je to len ne\u00factou. Ve\u013ek\u00fa \u00falohu pri prehlbovan\u00ed spom\u00ednanej priepasti zohr\u00e1va technika, ktor\u00e1 gener\u00e1cie od seba od\u010fa\u013euje \u2013 jej pou\u017e\u00edvan\u00edm i\u00a0r\u00fdchlo sa meniacim sp\u00f4sobom komunik\u00e1cie. Ur\u010dite m\u00e1 svoj dopad aj fyzick\u00e9 oddelenie gener\u00e1ci\u00ed. Mlad\u00ed a\u00a0star\u00ed u\u017e ne\u017eijeme spolo\u010dne v\u00a0spolo\u010dn\u00fdch priestoroch \u2013 mlad\u00ed v\u00a0dome, star\u00ed na \u201evejminku\u201c, spolu na jednom malom dvore, kde sa denne stretali a\u00a0komunikovali. Nie je to v\u0161ak iba o\u00a0spolo\u010dnom fyzickom priestore, \u010di sp\u00f4sobe dorozumievania sa.<\/p>\n<p>Sta\u010d\u00ed mlad\u0161\u00edch k \u00facte k star\u0161\u00edm iba vies\u0165? S\u00fa\u010dasne n\u00e1s u\u010dili, \u017ee treba \u00eds\u0165 pr\u00edkladom. No, nesta\u010d\u00ed spom\u00edna\u0165, ako \u201esme si star\u0161\u00edch ctili my\u201c a d\u00e1va\u0165 seba za vzor \u2013 treba by\u0165 pr\u00edkladom. Uk\u00e1za\u0165, \u017ee aj my star\u0161\u00ed m\u00e1me \u00factu a re\u0161pekt k mlad\u0161\u00edm. Na prepojenie oboch brehov a zasyp\u00e1vanie genera\u010dnej priepasti s\u00fa potrebn\u00e9 obe strany. Navy\u0161e \u2013 \u010fal\u0161ie pravidlo, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1s u\u010dili, je za\u010d\u00edna\u0165 s\u00e1m od seba. No, zamyslime sa nad t\u00fdm, \u010di my star\u0161\u00ed (tie\u017e u\u017e k\u00a0nim patr\u00edm, som za polovicou svojho \u017eivota) m\u00e1me na \u00factu automaticky n\u00e1rok len vekom.<\/p>\n<p>Ako chceme, aby mlad\u0161\u00ed star\u0161\u00edm preukazovali \u00factu, ak star\u0161\u00ed nebud\u00fa preukazova\u0165 \u00factu im? \u00dactou k\u00a0mlad\u0161\u00edm preukazujem vlastne \u00factu k\u00a0svojej vlastnej mladosti. Mlados\u0165 je zvedavos\u0165 a\u00a0dychtivos\u0165 po novom, a\u00a0staroba d\u00e1va h\u013abku \u017eitia. Tak sa u\u010d\u00edm mlad\u0161\u00edm preukazova\u0165 \u00factu i\u00a0re\u0161pekt, komunikova\u0165 s\u00a0nimi a\u00a0cez pochopenie svojej mladosti d\u00e1va\u0165 vzor. Ja som si svoju mlados\u0165 od\u017eila, tak m\u00e1m v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iu \u0161ancu ch\u00e1pa\u0165 teraj\u0161\u00edch mlad\u00fdch. No, oni (a\u00a0ani ja) e\u0161te nevedia ak\u00e9 to je by\u0165 star\u00fdm. K\u00a0tomu potrebujeme m\u00fadrych star\u0161\u00edch.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00a0tak si z\u00a0toho odn\u00e1\u0161am jednoduch\u00fa my\u0161lienku: Ak si v\u00e1\u017eim mlad\u0161\u00edch \u2013 v\u00e1\u017eim si svoju minulos\u0165. Ak si v\u00e1\u017eim star\u0161\u00edch \u2013 v\u00e1\u017eim si svoju bud\u00facnos\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00a0takto sa mi \u013eah\u0161ie \u017eije v\u00a0pr\u00edtomnosti.<\/p>\n<p><em>S\u00a0\u00factou<\/em><br \/>\n<em>mladostar\u00e1 \u2013 staromlad\u00e1<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u017delm\u00edra Mach\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>\u017divot je pln\u00fd pravidiel, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m v\u0161tepovali star\u0161\u00ed. Jedno z nich bolo, \u017ee k star\u0161\u00edm m\u00e1me ma\u0165 \u00factu. Jedna gener\u00e1cia za druhou to k\u00e1\u017ee tej nasleduj\u00facej, no, nem\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee ju vieme aplikova\u0165 do \u017eivota <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/tak-si-myslim-ze-ak-mame-uctu-k-sebe-mame-uctu-aj-k-inym-a-opacne\/\" title=\"Tak si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ak m\u00e1me \u00factu k sebe, m\u00e1me \u00factu aj k in\u00fdm. 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