{"id":447,"date":"2018-02-09T16:50:05","date_gmt":"2018-02-09T15:50:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/?p=447"},"modified":"2018-02-09T17:19:53","modified_gmt":"2018-02-09T16:19:53","slug":"tak-si-myslim-ze-pevna-vola-nie-je-ziadna-cnost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/tak-si-myslim-ze-pevna-vola-nie-je-ziadna-cnost\/","title":{"rendered":"Tak si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee pevn\u00e1 v\u00f4\u013ea nie je \u017eiadna cnos\u0165"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Kus m\u00f4jho d\u00e1vneho \u017eivota som sa tr\u00fdznila presved\u010den\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1m nedostatok pevnej v\u00f4le. Presnej\u0161ie povedan\u00e9, \u017ee pevn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu nem\u00e1m v\u00f4bec \u017eiadnu. Viem to isto, lebo mi to hovorili a\u00a0 tie\u017e mi to potvrdila moja prax. Moje pokusy o\u00a0jej pou\u017eitie toti\u017e dopadli katastrof\u00e1lne.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aby som netrpela pocitom viny, \u017ee pevn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu nem\u00e1m, tak si pre istotu ned\u00e1vam \u017eiadne predsavzatia, i ke\u010f v\u00a0 tomto smere bol ned\u00e1vno \u010das poku\u0161en\u00ed :-). Na\u0161\u0165astie, nefaj\u010d\u00edm, nepijem (aspo\u0148 nie ve\u013ea) ani nepotrebujem z\u00e1sadne chudn\u00fa\u0165, tak s\u00a0 \u0148ou nie som nejako silne konfrontovan\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>V snahe odola\u0165 poku\u0161eniam predsa len sk\u00fasi\u0165 pevn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu pou\u017ei\u0165, zamyslela som sa nad t\u00fdm, \u010di je to v\u00f4bec t\u00e1 pozit\u00edvna hnacia sila. Ve\u010f ke\u010f\u00a0 sa rozhodnem pou\u017ei\u0165 ju k\u00a0 dosiahnutiu dajak\u00e9ho cie\u013ea,\u00a0rovno ho t\u00fdm vopred ods\u00fadim k\u00a0ne\u00faspechu! A\u00a0ak by toto poznanie nesta\u010dilo k\u00a0 vyradeniu pevnej v\u00f4le z\u00a0m\u00f4jho reperto\u00e1ru n\u00e1strojov, pri\u0161la som na \u010fal\u0161ie nebezpe\u010denstvo jej pou\u017e\u00edvania. Pre m\u0148a je nie\u010d\u00edm, \u010do m\u00e1m osobne spojen\u00e9 s\u00a0 discipl\u00ednou, s\u00a0 ve\u013ek\u00fdm sna\u017een\u00edm, a\u00a0 to spojenie s\u00a0pr\u00eddavn\u00fdm menom pevn\u00e1&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>U\u017e len ke\u010f o\u00a0tom p\u00ed\u0161em, som unaven\u00e1. Evidentne, pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 ju je ve\u013emi vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00face. Tak\u017ee nielen \u017ee ohrozuje cie\u013e, ale aj moje zdravie! Po tejto \u00favahe som t\u00e9mu pevnej v\u00f4le uzatvorila bez pocitu viny, \u017ee ju nem\u00e1m. Mo\u017eno niekde m\u00e1m, ale nepou\u017e\u00edvam, a tak som na t\u00fato t\u00e9mu vyhl\u00e1sila osobn\u00e9 embargo. Pred ned\u00e1vnom bol v\u0161ak stav embarga n\u00e1hle ohrozen\u00fd. Naru\u0161il ho n\u00e1zor osoby, ktor\u00e1 sa vyjadrila o\u00a0mojej \u201eobdivuhodne silnej v\u00f4li\u201c, \u017ee som pre \u0148u vzorom a\u00a0je jej \u013e\u00fato, \u017ee ona tak\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu nem\u00e1. Nech\u00e1pala som. Som to ja, o\u00a0 kom je re\u010d?!<\/p>\n<p>Sna\u017eila som sa jej to vyhovori\u0165, no\u00a0 ona tvrdila, \u017ee dosiahnu\u0165 v\u00fdsledky bez pevnej v\u00f4le nie je mo\u017en\u00e9. Tvrdila, \u017ee pevn\u00e1 v\u00f4\u013ea je vraj z\u00e1kladom \u00faspechu. No a\u00a0v\u00a0tom mi to docvaklo. O\u00a0ko\u013ek\u00fdch \u013eu\u010foch si my asi mysl\u00edme, \u017ee maj\u00fa pevn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu, len preto, \u017ee sa im nie\u010do podarilo? Ko\u013ek\u00fdch som ja takto omylom obdivovala, ko\u013ek\u00ed asi m\u0148a? A\u00a0tak, v\u00a0z\u00e1ujme objektivity, zachovania n\u00e1\u0161ho zdravia a\u00a0zdrav\u00e9ho sebavedomia som sa rozhodla uvies\u0165 veci na prav\u00fa mieru: Netreba pevn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu prece\u0148ova\u0165 a\u00a0 vyn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 jej z\u00e1sluhy do nebesk\u00fdch v\u00fd\u0161in. V\u00fd\u0161iny sa toti\u017e m\u00f4\u017eu sta\u0165 nedosiahnute\u013en\u00fdmi a\u00a0 k\u00a0 tomu s\u00a0 rast\u00facou v\u00fd\u0161kou kles\u00e1 na\u0161e sebavedomie.<\/p>\n<p>Ako je ale mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee sa n\u00e1m v\u00a0\u017eivote ve\u013ea vec\u00ed podar\u00ed bez nej? Mne napr\u00edklad viac ako pevn\u00e1 v\u00f4\u013ea pom\u00e1ha motiv\u00e1cia, rozhodnutie \u010di\u00a0 nad\u0161enie pre vec. A\u00a0ur\u010dite sa n\u00e1jde mnoho in\u00fdch pozit\u00edvnych s\u00edl :-).<\/p>\n<p>No\u00a0hlavne \u2013\u00a0ve\u013ea vec\u00ed by som nedosiahla bez \u013eud\u00ed; \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed ochotne podaj\u00fa pomocn\u00fa ruku, za \u010do \u010fakujem im sam\u00fdm i\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u010do mi ich poslali do cesty. Tak, zatv\u00e1ram notebook, kon\u010d\u00edm, som unaven\u00e1&#8230; \u017deby som, pod\u013ea tej \u00fanavy, nakoniec predsa len pevn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu pou\u017eila? Alebo je to v\u00f4\u013ea celkom oby\u010dajn\u00e1, nie hne\u010f pevn\u00e1? Je to pocit zodpovednosti, ktor\u00fd ma n\u00fati veci do\u0165ahova\u0165 do konca bez oh\u013eadu na \u00fanavu? Alebo e\u0161te nie\u010do in\u00e9? Ale toto h\u013eadanie u\u017e je na samostatn\u00fa t\u00e9mu.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00a0\u00factou unaven\u00e1 \u017delm\u00edra Mach\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Kus m\u00f4jho d\u00e1vneho \u017eivota som sa tr\u00fdznila presved\u010den\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1m nedostatok pevnej v\u00f4le. Presnej\u0161ie povedan\u00e9, \u017ee pevn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu nem\u00e1m v\u00f4bec \u017eiadnu. 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