{"id":4474,"date":"2021-05-07T21:03:04","date_gmt":"2021-05-07T19:03:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/?p=4474"},"modified":"2021-05-07T21:12:38","modified_gmt":"2021-05-07T19:12:38","slug":"mama-ma-oci-aj-na-chrbte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/mama-ma-oci-aj-na-chrbte\/","title":{"rendered":"Mama m\u00e1 o\u010di aj na chrbte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ke\u010f moji bratia vym\u00fd\u0161\u013eali nejak\u00fa nezbednos\u0165, st\u00e1valo sa, \u017ee ich mama napomenula, hoci sa ned\u00edvala, \u010do moment\u00e1lne robia. Na ot\u00e1zku: \u201eAko viete, \u010do rob\u00edm, ve\u010f sem nepozer\u00e1te?&#8220; mama odpovedala: \u201eJa m\u00e1m o\u010di aj na chrbte.&#8220; Toto neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee by matka mala by\u0165 ako nejak\u00fd \u201etajn\u00fd agent&#8220;, ktor\u00fd tajne aj za chrbtom niekoho sleduje. Je to prejav toho, \u017ee ozajstn\u00e1 materinsk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska m\u00e1, takpovediac, duchovn\u00fa povahu. \u201eVid\u00ed\u201c svoje die\u0165a aj vo chv\u00edli, kedy pracuje, \u010di rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea pr\u00e1ve o\u00a0nie\u010dom inom.<\/p>\n<p>Spom\u00ednam si na udalos\u0165 z\u00a0\u010dias, ke\u010f som vy\u0161etrov\u00e1vala z\u00e1ujemcov o\u00a0osvojenie, ako aj det\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 mali by\u0165 osvojen\u00e9. Postup bol tak\u00fd, \u017ee pr\u00e1vne vo\u013en\u00e9 die\u0165a i\u0161lo do bud\u00facej osvojite\u013eskej rodiny na tri mesiace, akoby na sk\u00fa\u0161ku. Potom s\u00a0n\u00edm pri\u0161li na kontrolu, pos\u00fadi\u0165 ako na\u0148 vpl\u00fdva osvojite\u013esk\u00e9 prostredie a\u00a0a\u017e potom, po odporu\u010den\u00ed, i\u0161iel n\u00e1vrh na osvojenie na s\u00fad.<\/p>\n<p>Raz si osvojitelia vzali domov pribli\u017ene 18 \u2013 a\u017e 20-mesa\u010dn\u00e9ho chlap\u010deka. Po troch mesiacoch s\u00a0n\u00edm pri\u0161li na kontrolu. Bolo na poh\u013ead jasn\u00e9, \u017ee sa o\u0148 dobre staraj\u00fa a\u00a0chlap\u010dek bol dobre \u017eiven\u00fd a\u00a0pohybliv\u00fd. Re\u010dovo a\u00a0vedomostne sa v\u0161ak m\u00e1lo rozv\u00edjal. Ob\u010das som sa stret\u00e1vala s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee osvojitelia sa na za\u010diatku ob\u00e1vali die\u0165a nie\u010d\u00edm za\u0165a\u017ei\u0165, aby mu neu\u0161kodili. Napr\u00edklad 18-mesa\u010dn\u00e9mu die\u0165a\u0165u som dala do ruky ceruzu a\u00a0osvojite\u013eka zhrozen\u00e1 vyh\u0155kla: \u201eVy ste mu dali tu\u017eku? A\u00a0\u010do ke\u010f si \u0148ou vypichne oko?&#8220; V\u00a0pr\u00edpade, o\u00a0ktorom chcem hovori\u0165, som osvojite\u013eku videla ako bezradn\u00fa. Chlap\u010da behalo hore dole po ambulancii a\u00a0ona len bezmocne pozerala, kde je. Navrhla som, aby s\u00a0osvojen\u00edm e\u0161te po\u010dkali, aby sa pok\u00fasila zrealizova\u0165 \u010do videla pri vy\u0161etren\u00ed, a\u00a0postupy, o\u00a0ktor\u00fdch sme hovorili, a\u00a0aby pri\u0161li na kontrolu o\u00a0\u010fal\u0161ie \u0161tyri mesiace.<\/p>\n<p>Pri \u010fal\u0161ej kontrole bolo vidno, \u017ee die\u0165a vo v\u00fdvoji &#8222;posko\u010dilo&#8220; \u2013 za\u010d\u00ednalo hovori\u0165, rozumelo ot\u00e1zkam, reagovalo. Sedeli sme s\u00a0matkou tak, \u017ee ona bola chrtom k\u00a0oknu, pod ktor\u00fdm som mala p\u00edsac\u00ed st\u00f4l so \u0161tyrmi z\u00e1suvkami. Chlap\u010dek po\u010das n\u00e1\u0161ho rozhovoru pobiehal po ambulancii, odbehol k\u00a0oknu a\u00a0st\u00edchol. A\u00a0matka odrazu bez toho, aby sa obzrela, ho okr\u00edkla: \u201eJo\u017eko, neotv\u00e1raj tie \u0161upl\u00edky!&#8220; Aha! Sedela predo mnou mama, ktor\u00e1 m\u00e1 o\u010di aj na chrbte! Osvojenie sa realizovalo.<\/p>\n<p><em>Elena Spev\u00e1kov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Ke\u010f moji bratia vym\u00fd\u0161\u013eali nejak\u00fa nezbednos\u0165, st\u00e1valo sa, \u017ee ich mama napomenula, hoci sa ned\u00edvala, \u010do moment\u00e1lne robia. Na ot\u00e1zku: \u201eAko viete, \u010do rob\u00edm, ve\u010f sem nepozer\u00e1te?&#8220; mama odpovedala: \u201eJa m\u00e1m o\u010di aj na chrbte.&#8220; <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/mama-ma-oci-aj-na-chrbte\/\" title=\"Mama m\u00e1 o\u010di aj na chrbte\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":952,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4474","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-obzor-seniorov"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4474","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4474"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4474\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4475,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4474\/revisions\/4475"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/952"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4474"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4474"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4474"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}