{"id":4884,"date":"2021-11-10T18:12:14","date_gmt":"2021-11-10T17:12:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/?p=4884"},"modified":"2021-11-10T18:17:57","modified_gmt":"2021-11-10T17:17:57","slug":"pocuvajme-srdcom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/pocuvajme-srdcom\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u010d\u00favajme srdcom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eAk\u00e9 \u0161\u0165astie je ma\u0165 ka\u017edu\u010dk\u00fd okamih naplnen\u00fd obrovsk\u00fdm z\u00e1ujmom, ktor\u00fdm srdce rastie a\u00a0roz\u0161iruje sa, ke\u010f \u010dlovek nem\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 k\u00a0nikomu a\u00a0ni\u010domu \u013eahostajn\u00fd.\u201c<br \/>\nHonor\u00e9 de Balzac<\/p>\n<p>Medzi z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 prejavy \u013eudsk\u00e9ho \u017eivota, vraj, patr\u00ed kona\u0165 a\u00a0hovori\u0165. Ale \u010dosi mi v\u00a0tom ch\u00fdba: schopnos\u0165, alebo ochota? Po\u010d\u00fava\u0165. Dva monol\u00f3gy e\u0161te nemusia tvori\u0165 dial\u00f3g. Hovori\u0165 sme sa nau\u010dili, ale po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 nie. \u010co n\u00e1m ch\u00fdba: schopnos\u0165 alebo ochota? Po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 znamen\u00e1 prejavova\u0165 z\u00e1ujem o\u00a0svojho bl\u00ed\u017eneho, prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 nad jeho slovami, pre\u010do oslovil pr\u00e1ve n\u00e1s, reagova\u0165 v\u00a0tej istej frekvencii. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou radou, na\u0161\u00edm n\u00e1zorom na rie\u0161enie probl\u00e9mu, ve\u010f hovori\u0165 b\u00fdva prejavom d\u00f4very k\u00a0druh\u00e9mu \u010dloveku: ke\u010f vysielame, \u010dak\u00e1me odozvu. Asi sme u\u017e sami za\u017eili nepr\u00edjemn\u00fd pocit z\u00a0vysielania do pr\u00e1zdna, ke\u010f na\u0161e slov\u00e1 u\u00a0predpokladan\u00e9ho prij\u00edmate\u013ea i\u0161li \u201ejedn\u00fdm uchom dnu a\u00a0druh\u00fdm von\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>Ned\u00e1vno som v telev\u00edzii sledovala sv\u00e4t\u00fa om\u0161u z Vatik\u00e1nu a priam ma ohromila v k\u00e1zni Sv\u00e4t\u00e9ho otca v\u00fdzva u\u010di\u0165 sa po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 srdcom. U\u0161i ochotn\u00e9 po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 n\u00e1m bezo sporu ch\u00fdbaj\u00fa. Psychoterapeuti na Z\u00e1pade to u\u017e d\u00e1vnej\u0161ie vedia a d\u00e1vaj\u00fa si za po\u010d\u00favanie draho zaplati\u0165. Vedia, ak\u00fd je rozdiel medzi hovori\u0165 a poveda\u0165 a medzi po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 a skuto\u010dne po\u010du\u0165. A predsa tomu \u010dosi z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 ch\u00fdba: nielen skuto\u010dne (profesion\u00e1lne) po\u010du\u0165, ale pr\u00e1ve po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 srdcom. Netv\u00e1ri\u0165 sa iba, \u017ee sme naozaj duchom pr\u00edtomn\u00ed, ale aj rezonova\u0165. Vy\u017eaduje to nie\u010do z\u00a0n\u00e1s \u2013 ochotu obetova\u0165 svoj \u010das, prejavi\u0165 skuto\u010dn\u00fd z\u00e1ujem o\u00a0niekoho in\u00e9ho ne\u017e iba o\u00a0seba, otvori\u0165 svoje br\u00e1ny n\u00fadznemu p\u00fatnikovi \u2013 \u010di\u017ee vypo\u010du\u0165 ho srdcom.<\/p>\n<p>Akt\u00edvne po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 \u2013 to je skuto\u010dne akoby poskytnutie strechy nad hlavou unaven\u00fdm, akoby nas\u00fdtenie hladn\u00fdch a\u00a0v\u00fdsledkom by malo by\u0165 pote\u0161enie zarm\u00faten\u00fdch. Ve\u010f \u010dlovek c\u00edti potrebu vyrozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa vtedy, ke\u010f sa v\u00a0sebe tr\u00e1pi, t\u00e1pa, bl\u00fadi, nevid\u00ed v\u00fdchodisko. Ide o\u00a0po\u010d\u00favanie nevypl\u00fdvaj\u00face iba z\u00a0profesie, ako napr\u00edklad u\u00a0lek\u00e1ra, ale skuto\u010dne zo srdca, z\u00a0\u00faprimn\u00e9ho \u013eudsk\u00e9ho z\u00e1ujmu. Av\u0161ak, pre\u010do s\u00fa \u013eudia so schopnos\u0165ou po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 tak\u00ed vz\u00e1cni? Asi to bude s\u00favisie\u0165 s\u00a0praktickou aplik\u00e1ciou z\u00e1kladn\u00e9ho \u013eudsk\u00e9ho posolstva: \u201eMiluj bl\u00ed\u017eneho svojho ako seba sam\u00e9ho!\u201c A\u00a0so schopnos\u0165ou v\u00e1\u017ei\u0165 si svojho bl\u00ed\u017eneho ako seba sam\u00e9ho, nezmalicher\u0148ova\u0165 jeho probl\u00e9my, usilova\u0165 sa ich pochopi\u0165. \u010ci\u017ee \u2013 u\u010dme sa po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 srdcom v\u00a0celo\u017eivotnej \u0161kole n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota!<\/p>\n<p><em>Eva Fordin\u00e1lov\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>\u201eAk\u00e9 \u0161\u0165astie je ma\u0165 ka\u017edu\u010dk\u00fd okamih naplnen\u00fd obrovsk\u00fdm z\u00e1ujmom, ktor\u00fdm srdce rastie a\u00a0roz\u0161iruje sa, ke\u010f \u010dlovek nem\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 k\u00a0nikomu a\u00a0ni\u010domu \u013eahostajn\u00fd.\u201c Honor\u00e9 de Balzac Medzi z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 prejavy \u013eudsk\u00e9ho \u017eivota, vraj, patr\u00ed kona\u0165 a\u00a0hovori\u0165. 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