{"id":5371,"date":"2022-06-04T00:07:17","date_gmt":"2022-06-03T22:07:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/?p=5371"},"modified":"2025-01-31T00:06:56","modified_gmt":"2025-01-30T23:06:56","slug":"aky-je-zmysel-nasho-zivota","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/skalickyobzor.sk\/cms\/aky-je-zmysel-nasho-zivota\/","title":{"rendered":"Ak\u00fd je zmysel n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ke\u010f sa n\u00e1m dobre \u017eije, ke\u010f m\u00e1me v\u0161etko materi\u00e1lne o\u00a0\u010dom sme sn\u00edvali, m\u00e1me spolo\u010densk\u00e9 postavenie po ktorom sme t\u00fa\u017eili…, pr\u00edde chv\u00ed\u013ea, kedy sa v\u00a0na\u0161om vn\u00fatri objav\u00ed ot\u00e1zka, ktor\u00fa si mnoh\u00ed ani pr\u00edli\u0161 nepripustia do vedomia: \u201eA\u00a0\u010do urob\u00ed\u0161 \u010falej so svojim \u017eivotom?\u201c<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

To materi\u00e1lne, \u010do sme vybudovali, je u\u017e stereotypn\u00e9, nudn\u00e9, u\u017e pre\u0161la t\u00e1 prv\u00e1 triumfuj\u00faca rados\u0165 z\u00a0toho, \u010do sme dosiahli. \u201e\u010co teraz? \u010co \u010falej?\u201c H\u013eada\u0165 nov\u00e9 ciele alebo stagnova\u0165 na mieste? \u010clovek, ktor\u00fd nenach\u00e1dza zmysel (alebo \u010fal\u0161\u00ed zmysel) svojho \u017eivota, nevie na\u010do sa upn\u00fa\u0165, k\u00a0\u010domu smerova\u0165, str\u00e1ca vn\u00fatorn\u00e9 sily. Na tak\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu reaguj\u00fa \u013eudia r\u00f4zne. Niektor\u00ed uveden\u00fa ot\u00e1zku, ktor\u00e1 sa odkia\u013esi vyn\u00e1ra, sna\u017eia prehlu\u0161i\u0165 alkoholom, drogami, aby nevideli, nepo\u010duli, nevn\u00edmali svoju pr\u00e1zdnotu. In\u00ed upadaj\u00fa do depresie, ktor\u00fa treba lie\u010di\u0165; ak nie, ukon\u010duj\u00fa sami svoj \u017eivot. A\u00a0in\u00ed h\u013eadaj\u00fa zmysel svojho \u017eivota, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 vy\u0161\u0161iu hodnotu, nielen materi\u00e1lno, ktor\u00e9 ho obkolesuje.<\/p>\n

NA VLASTNEJ KO\u017dI<\/h4>\n

Viedensk\u00fd psychiater a psychoterapeut Viktor E. Frankl, ako jedin\u00fd zo svojej rodiny, pre\u017eil koncentra\u010dn\u00fd t\u00e1bor. Vo svojej kni\u017eke Napriek v\u0161etk\u00e9mu poveda\u0165 \u017eivotu \u00e1no popisuje \u017eivot v koncentra\u010dnom t\u00e1bore. Okrem in\u00e9ho hovor\u00ed o tom, \u017ee ke\u010f sa bl\u00ed\u017eili Vianoce 1944, mnoh\u00ed d\u00fafali, \u017ee do Vianoc sa vojna skon\u010d\u00ed a oni sa dostan\u00fa na slobodu. Medzi Vianocami 1944 a Nov\u00fdm rokom 1945 bolo v koncentra\u010dnom t\u00e1bore ve\u013ek\u00e9 masov\u00e9 zomieranie. D\u00f4vod? Svoje psychick\u00e9 aj fyzick\u00e9 sily rozlo\u017eili v zhode s o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00edm, \u017ee na Vianoce u\u017e bud\u00fa slobodn\u00ed, bez tr\u00e1penia… Ke\u010f sa tak nestalo, pri\u0161lo sklamanie, frustr\u00e1cia, bezn\u00e1dej, ktor\u00e1 ober\u00e1 o\u00a0sily, o\u00a0imunitu a\u00a0t\u00fdm o\u00a0odolnos\u0165 vo\u010di \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdm \u017eivotn\u00fdm podmienkam.<\/p>\n

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V\u010eAKA ZA UTRPENIE<\/h4>\n

Kr\u00edza, utrpenia, ktor\u00e9 \u010dloveka postihn\u00fa, s\u00fa t\u00fdm, \u010do n\u00e1s tla\u010d\u00ed dopredu, vedie n\u00e1s k vyzrievaniu osobnosti, d\u00e1va \u0161ancu n\u00e1js\u0165 vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed zmysel svojej existencie, ne\u017e len materi\u00e1lny blahobyt pre seba. Ak \u010dlovek spracuje utrpenie, ktor\u00e9 pre\u017e\u00edva, tak, \u017ee sa nezameriava len s\u00e1m na seba, ale vid\u00ed okolo seba aj in\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, s ich tr\u00e1pen\u00edm a potrebami, n\u00e1jde zmysel svojho utrpenia. Napr\u00edklad bezvl\u00e1dny star\u00fd \u010dlovek, le\u017eiaci na l\u00f4\u017eku, m\u00f4\u017ee ma\u0165 pocity vlastnej zbyto\u010dnosti a nezmyselnosti svojho \u017eivota. Av\u0161ak jeho \u017eivot v bezvl\u00e1dnosti je sk\u00fa\u0161kou pre t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed ho o\u0161etruj\u00fa, ak\u00e9 s\u00fa oni osobnosti; o\u0161etruj\u00fa ho s l\u00e1skou a trpezlivo? Alebo nevrlo, mrzuto, \u017ee ten le\u017eiaci je iba na \u0165archu? Utrpenie bl\u00ed\u017eneho, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1s vedie k s\u00facitu a snahe pom\u00e1ha\u0165 mu, d\u00e1va zmysel na\u0161ej existencii. A kvalita, autentickos\u0165 na\u0161ej starostlivosti o neho d\u00e1va zmysel jeho existencii.<\/p>\n

\u010cO OD N\u00c1S \u010cAK\u00c1 \u017dIVOT?<\/h4>\n

Ako hovor\u00ed s\u00e1m Viktor Frankl: \u201eNikdy a\u00a0nijako nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, \u010do m\u00f4\u017eeme e\u0161te od \u017eivota o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165, ale z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed jedine na tom, \u010do \u017eivot o\u010dak\u00e1va od n\u00e1s!\u201c V\u00a0uvedenom pr\u00edpade bezvl\u00e1dneho \u010dloveka, ktor\u00e9ho treba opatrova\u0165, \u017eivot od neho o\u010dak\u00e1va, \u017ee prijme rolu \u201eobjektu\u201c, ktor\u00fd je n\u00e1pl\u0148ou pr\u00e1ce a\u00a0em\u00f3ci\u00ed t\u00fdch, \u010do sa o\u00a0neho staraj\u00fa. Autor zd\u00f4raz\u0148uje jedine\u010dnos\u0165 a\u00a0neopakovate\u013enos\u0165 \u013eudsk\u00fdch osudov. Av\u0161ak, aj ke\u010f je n\u00e1m nadelen\u00e9 utrpenie, je nutn\u00e9, aby \u010dlovek videl, na\u0161iel zmysel aj takejto svojej existencie.<\/p>\n

Spravidla si \u013eudia klad\u00fa ot\u00e1zku po zmysle, ke\u010f sa udeje nie\u010do zl\u00e9: ne\u0161\u0165astie, \u017eiveln\u00e1 pohroma, alebo pand\u00e9mia, sprev\u00e1dzan\u00e1 umieran\u00edm. Ak\u00fd zmysel m\u00e1 zomieranie \u010dloveka? Ak\u00fd zmysel m\u00e1 pre neho samotn\u00e9ho, pre jeho najbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch, pre susedov, spolupracovn\u00edkov, pre mnoh\u00fdch \u010fal\u0161\u00edch \u013eud\u00ed…? Ak aj teraz nevid\u00edme zmysel utrpenia, je treba uchova\u0165 si n\u00e1dej, \u017ee pr\u00edde \u010das, kedy pochop\u00edme jeho zmysel. Len mo\u017eno veci vy\u017eaduj\u00fa dlh\u0161\u00ed \u010das, aby sme \u201edozreli\u201c do ich poznania.<\/p>\n

Elena Spev\u00e1kov\u00e1,<\/em>
\nklinick\u00e1 psychologi\u010dka<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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